Original Date Posted: Feb 2013
Now on to the interesting topic of fellatio the formal name for a blow job. Everyone has their own techniques but here a few to try if you don't already do so..
I'm going to be honest, a lot of guys complain about the smell of vaginas, however some of you need to wash your boxers and your penis right before she goes down. Be considerate and monitor your own personal hygiene before you question hers.
Back to the post. I believe it is impossible to be bad at blow jobs, I mean its not rocket science. There isn't really much to do besides suck it. But for those of you who need it, help is at hand.
Like women, men like to be teased, don't let him get the goods all at once. Lick his ear or kiss and bite his neck whilst playing with ,but not in his boxers. When its time, work your way down and kiss around his pelvis. Bite very lightly, lick it every now and then so he thinks your about to start then kiss around his pelvis again. Soon after, start using your hands, grip it tight and jerk him off quickly. When you jerk him off take note of what hits the spot. Some guys prefer if you focus on the head and centre, others prefer more pressure on the vein at the back of their dick and are more aroused from the centre to the base, others like the whole thing being touched. But spit on it first. One thing that i can guarantee will get him hard in an instant is when you spit on it. Sounds weird, but try and be sexy about it, don't just phlegm on it and think job done. With all oral sex multi-tasking is key. Do it from a far so he can see it as it lands on his penis then look deep in to his eyes if its not wet enough or you miss, spit on it again or pick it up and put it on there.Once you've got to this stage you'll see his pleasure and frustration build up, then when you see he's getting really impatient go in for the kill. Also if you have long hair tight it back or let him hold it. Hair can be really annoying when its in the way of what your doing and it'll block his view. Whether your on your knees or on top of him on the bed look up at him every now and then, keep eye contact for a few seconds or just watch his facial expressions then you can see what he really likes and learn his preferences.
Having DSL's isn't an essential when pleasing your man according to the men I've spoken to it does make a difference. If your lips are thin then pout and put pressure on his penis by pressing your lips closer together and NO TEETH. Ladies you wouldn't him to do an american psycho on you now would you???? (if you haven't watched the film he bites off her clit) so don't do the same to him. Keep sucking it with the added pressure, from time to time you'll build up a lot of spit in your mouth don't swallow it put it all on there, let him see it too! When its really wet jerk him off but start sucking it straight after. This is your time to shine so show off! When your sucking it you can bash him off with one hand, two hands or no hands. Let him hold your hands back whilst he makes you gag on it till your eyes tear up a little. Or put your hands behind your back or on his hips whilst he grabs you by your hair. Some people find this a little extreme others learn to love it. It'll make him feel in control even though your the one doing the work. This isn't a must but if your comfortable doing so then by all means do it. Suck on his head really hard try and put your lips slightly over your teeth when doing this as it easy to bite him. Guys are big kids their easily pleased so suck it really hard then when you reach the tip of the head let go, keep repeating this you'll make a kind of 'mwah' sound every time. He'll probably laugh a bit or say something dirty to you but as long as he's enjoying keep doing it. Put your tongue on the hole at the same time so your licking and sucking simultaneously he will LOVE it its almost like your trying to force the cum to come out. If you have a tongue bar put the ball of your bar just at the top of the hole, don't try and force it into the hole your just asking to get KO'd if you try. Some guys like it if you suck the big vein at the back of their penis, if your going to do this play with his balls at the same time then start sucking it again bit keep playing with them REMEMBER multi-tasking is key to oral. Sex is all about learning someone's body to ensure you make them reach that climax in the best way possible so not all these techniques will work but just try them.
Now for deep throating, some guys need to understand if your penis is too thick there is no way she going to be able to deep throat so don't force her if she's struggling or is trying to stop. Not every girl has a wide set mouth, if you have a wide dick and you find one that does then keep her. Not everyone can deep throat, many people just end up gagging so practice makes perfect. I once read in a forum that girls practice on vegetables such as carrots and cucumber or courgette (zucchini) please don't make yourself vomit, it that happens then stop and never try again. The key to deep throating
is having control over your gag reflexes, once you've mastered this then you'll be fine.
Something that I heard most recently is breathe mints. Before you start take two breathe mints but don't finish them.
The warm sensation will drive him wild :)
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Something that I heard most recently is breathe mints. Before you start take two breathe mints but don't finish them.
The warm sensation will drive him wild :)
Giving a guy blue balls is mean so we're always left with the crucial question swallow or not to swallow?? If you don't want to taste it then let him cum right at the back of your throat so it slides straight down or let him cum somewhere on your body like your breast, bum, or mound. If your into facials then that is 100% on you I don't understand what would possess a female to allow such a thing, but everyone has different kinks so who am I to question your sexual preferences. If he cums right on your tongue, be warned this is not always a pleasant experience. Every guys cum is a different consistency, it doesn't mean he has any type of infection but biologically we're all different. Some is thick, some is smooth, some is watery, some is lumpy but its all warm. If he cums on your tongue then what do you do? Despite how freaky I am seem I can be quite a prude, I personally think cum is vile and don't ever want to see or touch it. So the answer to swallow or not to swallow is: its up to you, don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to do. If he does then spit it back on him and let him clean it up, teach him a little lesson :)
top tips
*tease him
*spit on it
*jerk him off every now and then
*remember his balls
*SPIT ON IT
*always multi task
*enjoy yourself too
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