The Chase

This post is kind of long so braise yourselves...

Many women have that one guy who they will always remember. She learnt many valuable lessons whilst with him, the most important one being to love herself. Before trying to fix her own problems she would help him to show how committed she was even if he was running from that same commitment so why chase him? Why chase an idea that won't become reality without his co-operation?

I believe there are two major reasons why women get hurt or ruin relationships: 

1) They believe they can change a man.

2) They fall in love with his potential despite him not showing any signs of being that person just yet. 

Men are not as stupid as we like to think. Indecisive? Yes, but not stupid. This also means they know exactly what they want. "So if he knows I'm waiting for him to change why doesn't he?" I hear you ask. Because he isn't ready maybe!? It's that simple and you nagging won't make it happen any quicker. You can communicate how you feel and what you want in every language, but just because you want it doesn't mean he wants it at the same time or at all in some cases. When a man is ready to move forward with you he will make it very very clear, believe me. Some women will enter relationships to deal with their insecurities and loneliness. Once she has him and realises the insecurity is still there, she will think he is to blame because he hasn't fixed all her problems like she had hoped. But a man will not change unless he wants to, so instead of leaving she stays and puts up with everything she doesn't like because she hopes it will work out in the end. 

Diary of a call girl.

The sex industry is something we seem to be so fascinated by, but only from a distance. We love hearing the stories of strippers and escorts but that's where it ends. Although we may joke about it, we know we would never get into the industry, no matter how well it paid.

For this reason, I asked escorts to contact me and share their stories. As I had expected not many responded but I learnt a lot from the ones that did. There were 3 women I spoke to but I picked these 2 because they have experienced the good and bad sides of the game.

How I got grey hair

Loaaaaaads of you have been asking how I managed to dye my hair grey so this post will tell you what you need and how to do it. I wanted to make a YouTube video but I finished all the dye *sorry* Both the silver and grey dye were purchased from Amazon, links are at the bottom of this post. 

                                                                    

Behind every successful man...

There is a woman, as the well known saying goes. But why just a woman? I mean she could be his mum, cousin, great aunt...absolutely anyone. So why not let her be an independent, hard working, equally successful woman, who still finds the time to support you? When speaking to a male friend of mine recently, relationships and finances quickly became the main focus of the conversation. His argument was that 'the vast majority of women don't want to struggle with their man and would rather meet a made man, as opposed to a guy who has the drive but just doesn't know what he wants to do in life.' As a woman, in picking the latter you take on the role of the struggle girlfriend and when the time is right the supportive wife. Although being the struggle girlfriend makes for a great weeding speech, many of us don't want to be her and here are a few reasons why. 

                                                            

Firstly, let's define what a made man means in this post. A made man is someone who is actively working towards his life goals. You can evidently see the progress he has made and he is happy not only with what he has achieved, but in himself. He is in a stable position but looking to do more, and with your support he can do better. He isn't a CEO who has paid off his mortgage with 3 cars in his drive way by the age of 25, but he is living comfortably.